Build Your Business Relationships Like An Introvert

By | 2017-03-01T01:00:16+00:00 March 7th, 2017|Uncategorized|

Contrary to popular belief, introverts make great networkers. During the course of writing my book Build Your Dream Network: Forging Powerful Relationships In A Hyper-Connected World, I interviewed a number of individuals whose professional success was achieved through the power of their networks – and in the course of interviewing them, discovered they were introverts.

Manisha Thakor is one of my Build Your Dream Network interviewees. She describes herself as profoundly introverted and has taken control of networking (and her career) – rather than allowing the fear or dislike of the process sideline her ambitions. Manisha is director of wealth strategies for women at the BAM Alliance, a community of 140-plus independent registered investment advisors. And it was the Zig Ziglar quote:

You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want

that reset how Manisha chose to start approach networking.

Manisha is growing her wealth-management business one small networking event at a time – networking events she designs from the theme to the invitees. As she shares in my book: her aim with each event (from her Lean In Ladies Lunches to Playing Big evening reception) has been to make connections to help every attendee solve a problem or address a business challenge. Of course, gaining new clients was her ultimate goal, but Manisha pursues her particular goal by being helpful and continually at the top of her network’s mind.

This mindset carries into Manisha’s digital networking strategies. She regularly sends out a newsletter packed with thought-leadership and industry insights. She also records the MoneyZen podcast that is sent out through her business network of independent financial advisors (and shared with their clients). MoneyZen is Manisha’s joy-based approach to personal finance honoring the core values of simplicity, freedom and abundance. Incorporating her personal values into business activities has been a purposeful networking decision.

If creating your own networking events to build client relationships resonates with you as a business strategy (whether you’re an introvert or not), here are Manisha’s four success tips:

  1. Select attendees carefully. While you may start by inviting everyone you meet (or are referred to you), over time curate the guest list. As Manisha shares in Build Your Dream Network “knowing exactly who she was looking to meet opened up opportunities to invite more of the potential clients she was looking for”.
  2. Have an actionable takeaway. Manisha’s primary goal for each event is for the attendees to walk away with investing information they can put to use right away – and by giving them that information, she meets her second goal – attendees know exactly the type of services she offers.
  3. Create a follow-up strategy. Manisha’s follow-up strategy is her newsletter (and anyone who attends one of her events is on the distribution list). She also frequently circulates some of the best articles she has found.
  4. Build your network early. Classic networking advice and Manisha took this to heart early in her career. It takes time to establish trust, so Manisha’s guidance is to start building relationships early and to keep at it using the networking tactics that work best for you!
J. Kelly Hoey is a problem solver who believes that most professional challenges—whether funding, landing a board position or getting a new job—are solved by tapping into networks.Kelly is a popular speaker on networking, community building and investing issues, especially as they relate to women, and has worked with the IEEE, PGA, Bank of America, Apple and countless others. Follow Kelly on Twitter @jkhoey and on Instagram @jkellyhoey.